I was dropping my daughter Emily off at school and then going to speak to a group of men about being better dads. On the way, my daughter said, “Dad, why do you teach men to be better fathers when you haven’t mastered it yet?” That hurt, but it was a good question that I wanted to answer. So I said, “I want to share with the men the mistakes I’ve made and the things I’ve learned as a father over the years.” My...
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Most kids generally understand that when you get your paycheck, you deposit it into a bank, and then the bank pays you a little something called interest for keeping your money there. In the same way, explain to your children that each time they tell the truth, a deposit is made in your “trust account.” When a lie is told, that account is depleted. The more deposits that are made, the more you trust them and...
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A few weeks ago, my son left for college. As I hugged him good-bye, the dam broke and tears flowed from my eyes… I sobbed uncontrollably. It can be good to cry every now and then. Why? First, we were created to cry. Whether we cry with tears of joy or tears of sorrow, crying is part of who we are as humans. Second, crying cleanses. It’s a form of emotional release that can cleanse the mind, heart and soul....
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Does it seem like your kids turn to your wife more than they turn to you? If they do, take a look at how you’re parenting. Are you a listener, or a lecturer? Do you praise your kids or put them down? Do you show them patience or lose your temper? Are you fun to be around or always edgy? Do you spend time with them, or fill your schedule with other things? Now, even though kids naturally turn more to mom...
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After many years of marriage, I’ve learned the importance of these 5 C’s. The first C is combine. When a man and woman get married, the “two become one flesh.” Always remember that you are on the same team. The second C is commit. A husband and wife must commit to make their marriage a top priority. Third, confess. If you’ve wronged your spouse, be quick to admit it and ask for forgiveness. Fourth, change. Change...
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It’s hard to know when to let go and let your kids, especially your teens, make mistakes or even fail. But, sometimes, letting your kids make mistakes is the best way to help them learn. Here’s a simple list of common situations to help you to determine when it may be okay to let your kids make mistakes. First, let them fail a test. Sometimes all it takes one bad grade and one consequence to wake them up to the...
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Corrie ten Boom was a survivor of a concentration camp during WWII. Years later at a local church, she saw the former Nazi guard who put her in jail. Anger welled up inside her. She knew she needed to forgive him, but couldn’t…she didn’t have the strength. As the man approached her with an outstretched hand, Corrie received him…a powerful moment! She forgave the man who had caused her enormous pain. We all...
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