When our kids are young, we enjoy being “in control” parents. We control what they eat, where they go, and even who they spend time with. But all kids grow up, right? So how can you slowly let go of the steering wheel and prepare them for the future? Move from being an “in control” parent to an “out of control” parent in 3 steps. First, when they’re really little, you drive everything. Second, as they mature...
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To determine whether you should just insulate or completely isolate your child from potential temptation, bad influences, or pain, here’s a quick checklist. First, what’s the risk factor? When your child asks to do something, you should first and foremost identify whether this activity poses a real threat to your son or daughter. Second, has your child earned your trust? Have they consistently done what you’ve...
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Okay, the school year is pretty much underway. So do you know the answer to the following questions: who are your kids hanging out with? Who do they spend the most time with? Who do they talk to on the phone the most? Who are the three people they text the most? Who are their Facebook friends? An involved parent will know the answers to those questions. And studies show that involved parents can help keep...
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We want to be liked. We want to fit in. We want to be invited. We want to do what others are doing. Well, so do our children. And they’re especially vulnerable during their impressionable teen years – a time when they are seeking their identity as a person. So we need to show our children, by example, how to stand against what is wrong and stand for what is right… no matter what others may think or say. If we do...
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If your teen is romantically involved, you should be involved in the process. Don’t ignore the situation and hope it will just run its course. Educate your teen about the importance of postponing intimacy until marriage, the dangers of date rape and sexually transmitted diseases, and the benefits of making wise decisions, even if those decisions aren’t always the popular choice. The best way to teach your teen...
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Do you acknowledge the times your teen takes out the trash or helps a sibling with homework? Or do you just let his efforts go unnoticed? Don't miss those chances to let your teen know he’s appreciated. Your gratitude will not only give him a sense of significance, but will also help reinforce good behavior. When you see your teen doing something right—whether it’s doing a chore with a good attitude or not...
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The teen years arrive and many parents look back and now think the toddler, tike and even tween years were just a stroll in the park compared to what they are experiencing now. Why? Here are 5 reasons why your teen may be rebelling. First, they are struggling for identity. Your teen is trying to answer the question, “Who am I?” They’re also seeking validation in who they are as a person, not in their performance....
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