It’s hard to know when to let go and let your kids, especially your teens, make mistakes or even fail.  But, sometimes, letting your kids make mistakes is the best way to help them learn.  Here’s a simple list of common situations to help you to determine when it may be okay to let your kids make mistakes.  First, let them fail a test. Sometimes all it takes one bad grade and one consequence to wake them up to the...

It’s a simple equation— A more involved parent = a better student, a better school, and a better community.  That's where Family First's school breakfast programs come in. All Pro Dad's Days and iMOM Mornings bring moms and dads to school once a month for a time of bonding, encouragement, and fun.  And they're easy to start—we provide everything you need! So make sure your kids aren’t missing out.  Start your own...

Yesterday, I gave you three ways to motivate your child.  Here are the final four.  Fourth, give your child a “carrot”…a reward such as money for A’s or B’s. Fifth, be a cheerleader.  Children need affirmation…cheer them on…“good shot,” “way to go.”  Sixth, dream with your child.  Ignite her dream of being a musician.  Take her to see an orchestra.  Seventh, help your child set and own goals.  If your child owns...

Recently, my daughters surprised me with something very unexpected…a new wardrobe!  They told me to toss out my old cargo shorts and replace them with new clothes that would keep them from being embarrassed in public.  We all laughed at my out of style clothes and I’m glad I took their advice to get rid of those old ones. But it got me thinking about other ways I can take advice from my kids.  Could they help me...

If you are a parent, your child makes excuses.  Here’s a few excuses and what you can do.  First, “I’m not smart enough”.  When a child feels like an underachiever compared to their peers, they won’t even try. Help them discover their own strengths.  Talk through any insecurities they may have.  Second, “I’m scared.”  Don’t let your child be afraid to take risks.  Teach them to prepare. . .  then go for it. ...

Author C.S. Lewis said “Integrity is doing the right thing, even when no one is watching.” Integrity is not just something you do in your life, it’s something you believe in your heart.  It’s your internal GPS that always points to true north…that always prompts you to speak the truth and live out the truth.  Your kids learn more from what’s caught than taught.  So if you want to teach your children about...

All mothers and fathers want their children to honor them…to look up to them and hold them in high esteem. But parents who want to be honored by their kids must first honor their children. It’s amazing the way some parents dishonor their sons and daughters. I’ve seen mothers and fathers publicly belittle their kids with remarks like, “You are so stupid.” Or, “Can’t you do anything right?” I’ve seen how fathers...