Playing favorites with your children is a dangerous game. Preferring one child over another can destroy family unity… and cause lasting emotional damage for the “unfavored” child.  Maybe one daughter is prettier than her awkward sister; one son excels at academics or sports, while his brother struggles with grades, is more withdrawn, just plain ‘difficult’. It may feel natural to lavish attention on an exceptional child, but favoring one over the others can produce feelings of rejection, envy and bitterness. Look for the unique qualities in each of your children and praise them for their own special talents, gifts, and abilities.  For more help, here are 10 ways to love your child.