I’m talking about danger zones that lead to an affair. Unlike road hazards, they are not always clearly marked with orange cones. And, if you are not careful, you may hear yourself saying, “How did this happen?” Here are some ways to help you steer clear of danger. First, do you have an “office spouse” that you confide in? Be careful. Personal conversations should be reserved for your real spouse. Second,...
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Did you say, “My marriage”? Why not? Are you satisfied with just going through the motions? Is your marriage just mediocre? Do you even believe a vibrant, fully alive marriage is possible? It is. . . and should be your number one priority! So, how can you have a vibrant marriage? First, make a decision and be deliberate. Make a commitment to make your marriage a top priority. Second, understand it’s not...
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It’s all about the sweet and sour. When you talk to your spouse are you complimentary and sweet? Or are you critical and sour? Most of us are generous with the sour ingredients in marriage. When our spouse messes up, we’re quick with criticism. But when they do well, we reserve the compliment. We save the sweets for a special occasion. Most people give out six times as many sour sayings for every one that’s...
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My wife, Susan, came home the other day to find a special present that our dogs left for her. The dogs found a dead rat in the back yard and brought their prize into our house. So I came to her rescue and disposed of our dogs' not-so-thoughtful gift. I was pumped up about tossing that dead mouse in the trash because I love being Susan’s hero. Here are some "rats" in your wife’s life that you can help get rid...
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When it comes to making decisions, marital tension can rise more than a few degrees. Do you respect your spouse’s judgment? If you have a foundation of mutual respect and love, the temperature can stay cool and comfortable. So, here are some ways to regulate that marital thermostat and earn your spouse’s respect. First, love your spouse. Without genuine, selfless, unconditional love, nothing will succeed,...
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A fascinating Civil War story happened in Winchester, Virginia. During the conflict, the city changed hands between the North and the South over 70 times! Talk about fighting the same battle over and over again. The same thing happens in marriage. We often fight about the same issues. She doesn’t communicate well enough. He doesn’t really listen to her. He spends too much time working. She spends too much...
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It can happen without you even realizing it… you get married, days go by, years go by, and then—boom! Your marriage is in trouble. So what do you do? Commit to rebuild your relationship with your spouse. The rebuilding process will take patience, determination, forgiveness, and honesty from both parties. If your marriage is really in trouble, here are 4 steps to marriage CPR. Along the way to rebuilding your...
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