Over the years, Susan has learned that there are some things that she shouldn’t say to me. Maybe you’ve said a few things that didn’t please your husband either. So, what are some of those things you should not say to your husband? Here are a few... “I don’t respect you.” It's a devastating blow when a wife tells her husband that she doesn’t respect him. Another is "Why are you doing that?" A man does not want his woman to always question his judgment. “Can't you do anything right?" Those words pierce the heart of a man.  A husband wants his wife to believe in him and his abilities. See a complete list of the 9 Things You Should Never Say to Your Husband. Remember, your Family First.