Before you need it. Marriage counseling teaches couples how to work through their differences, communicate better and solve problems in the relationship. So, why don't more people do it? Well, many couples feel that their private life should be just that—private. They feel that is a stigma associated with seeking counseling. But there are times when a third party perspective is just what the doctor ordered. So, if you think you might need counseling, you probably do. Relationship expert and guest blogger, Dr. Matthew Turvey shares 4 ways to know when the right time for marriage counseling is.