If you have, make up your mind that you will never use it again.  The “D” word is divorce.  It can come up when you’re fighting, “I’m sick of you – I want a divorce!”  Or when things aren’t perfect, “If you do that again, I’m outta here!”  Well, you need to replace a divorce mindset with a commitment mindset.  You see, if divorce is even an option, you’re more likely to consider it.  Are you thinking about getting a divorce? The threat of divorce keeps couples from feeling secure.  Yes, occasionally divorce is the only solution, but unless that’s the case, don’t use the “D” word.  Here are 10 ways to divorce-proof your marriage.