Some people wouldn’t say much, but some would say degrading things about their spouse.  Sure, affairs do happen when things are going well in a marriage.  But sometimes, there have been years of neglect and loneliness…years of two people failing to give and love.  As my wife and I often say to each other, there are always two sides to every story.  And just as it may take two to pull the relationship apart, it takes two to reconcile.  So, when there’s damage done by both spouses in marriage, both need to acknowledge their failures and then ask, “What do I need to do to make this right?” I’ve got a story of one couple who did just that and how your marriage can survive an affair.  Additionally, here are 10 Variables a Successful Marriage Formula Has to Have.