Before you pack your bags and call it quits, here are some questions to ask. First, ask, “Have we done everything we can to rehabilitate our marriage?” It’s important to fight hard for your marriage—whether it’s by seeking counseling, slaying addictions or reprioritizing your life. Second, ask, “Is there unresolved conflict?” Instead of covering up your hurts, try sharing and working through those feelings together. Third, ask, “Have we really considered how this will affect our children?” Studies show that kids who go through a divorce struggle much more than those who don’t.

For more on his topic on my blog, go to 6 Qiuestions to Ask Before You Call It Quits in Marriage.