Without realizing it, you say something to your kids like, “How is it that your mom always forgets to do things I ask her?” No big deal, right? Wrong. When you speak unkind words about your spouse you are creating a negative image of your spouse to your kids. And once your kids have a negative image of one of their parents, they start repeating those unkind and disrespectful words also to that parent. Then, conflict and, ultimately, dishonor follows. Here are some ways you can avoid The Dangers of Complaining to Your Kids About Your Spouse.