It drives you crazy when he makes snap decisions, but his resolve was one of the reasons you fell in love with him.  It bothers you that she’s always talking to her friends, but her bubbly personality is what drew you to her in the first place.  So what should you do if your spouse is annoying you?  Spend the rest of your lives irritated with each other?  Of course not.  Instead, you should remember and appreciate those things that first attracted you to your spouse.  Second, reevaluate and talk about your expectations of each other.  Third, be prepared to make changes in your behavior during this season of your marriage.