Today I realized that I’ve been writing and speaking about how to have a great marriage, but I haven’t been putting all of it into practice.  Why? Well, a house flood, new book, financial pressures, family health challenges, and busyness have all played a role in keeping me from focusing on my marriage. But there’s no excuse. So, what am I doing about it? First, I’m re-reading some of my own blog posts on marriage and putting them into practice. Second, I’m vowing that I will not speak harshly or critically to Susan.  Third, I’m putting reminders at the top of my calendar every day of things I need to say to and do for Susan. Here’s more on why my marriage walk has not matched my marriage talk.