Did you say, “My marriage”?  Why not?  Are you satisfied with just going through the motions?  Is your marriage just mediocre?  Do you even believe a vibrant, fully alive marriage is possible?  It is. . . and should be your number one priority!  So, how can you have a vibrant marriage?  First, make a decision and be deliberate.  Make a commitment to make your marriage a top priority.  Second, understand it’s not all about you.  Marriage is not a 50/50 partnership.  It’s a 100%/100%, give it all you’ve got, relationship.  Here are 5 ways to have a healthy marriage to help you get started and 5 marriage expectations you need to talk about with your spouse.