You may be thinking that I’m going to give you some tips on how you can change that husband or wife of yours who desperately needs changing, right?  Well, not really. Instead, I’m going to give you seven things YOU must do as you strive to have your dream marriage. First, you must always make your spouse a top priority in your life.  Second, you must serve your spouse, and sacrifice for your spouse, without expectation of anything in return. Third, you must empathize with your spouse. Feel what they feel. Here are the rest of the seven things you must do to have your dream marriage.