It’s easy to instruct your mate on how they can be a better husband or wife.  But maybe it’s time to look at yourself.  Maybe it’s time for you to be the best you can be.  How? First, accept your spouse for who they are. Love them unconditionally. Accept their wonderful qualities…and their flaws. Second, applaud your spouse.  When you see your spouse doing something good, encourage them with your words. Third, allow them to be who God created them to be. Instead of wanting them to be more like you, give them the freedom to be themself. My wife, Susan, and I recently sat down and talked about how we can be better spouses to one another. To hear our conversation, listen to this week’s podcast at MarkMerrill.com.