After many years of marriage, I’ve learned the importance of these 5 C’s. The first C is combine. When a man and woman get married, the “two become one flesh.” Always remember that you are on the same team. The second C is commit. A husband and wife must commit to make their marriage a top priority. Third, confess. If you’ve wronged your spouse, be quick to admit it and ask for forgiveness. Fourth, change. Change must accompany confession.  Strive to turn in a new direction. The fifth C is choose.  Choose to love your spouse no matter what, even when they are unlovable.  Here's more on the 5 C’s to a healthy marriage.