Here’s what I mean.  When we get married it seems like the niceties of dating go out the window.  She stops shaving her legs every night and he stops covering his mouth when he belches—the whole neighborhood can hear him.  Now sure, it’s great to be comfortable with our spouse, but we still need to work at keeping the magic alive.  So as you’re going through your daily routine, think back to the nice things you used to say or do for each other…wearing your special perfume or getting the door for her.  And then, at least every once in a while, get in that dating mindset again.  For more ideas, here are 10 winter dates with your wife.  And here are 9 little things to do to get your spouse in the mood on Christmas Eve.  Merry Christmas!!