A fascinating Civil War story happened in Winchester, Virginia.  During the conflict, the city changed hands between the North and the South over 70 times!  Talk about fighting the same battle over and over again.  The same thing happens in marriage. We often fight about the same issues.  She doesn’t communicate well enough.  He doesn’t really listen to her.  He spends too much time working.  She spends too much money.  Well, it’s time to call a cease-fire.  Take note of the top things you and your spouse fight about and work to resolve them. And then be sure to read this article on fighting conflict in your marriage.