This last day of 2012 is the proper time to remember those we have lost this year.  The list includes brave service men and women whose names we will never know; celebrities whose names we do know; and, of course, some of you may have lost those closest to you.   As we reflect on their lives, we remember the brevity of ours, and this should give us incentive to pursue our life to the fullest.  That means a life lived for others. For your spouse, plan one date night a month and one marriage retreat a year. For your children, plan consistent one-on-one time with each of them. Here’s more on how to really live in 2013.